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The Sanghita Roy Lounge

My Life is Out of Control!

February14

When we come accross someone yelling “My Life is Out of Control“, we project out mind that something negative is growing up in his/her life. But my Life is Out of Control in a Positive direction. My Life is Out of Control of my expectations’ control and I am living a life that is not predicated on me controlling every aspect of it.

I have learned that when I allow my expectations’ to control everything and something shoots out to opposite focal point, I get angry & frustated, which sinks into a gradual intuitive impression of being Lost & uncertain about the accomplishments along my journey. Ultimately I myself get caught in a vicious cycle of assaying to control every single aspect of my experience and blame my inability to control everything on everyone and everything else while I swither in the frustration of my High-Expectation-Mind.

But when my Sprit comes into the command and I dont follow my expectation, I am able to authentically accept everything. When I follow my Spirits, I don’t have to be right, I don’t have to be dictating the resultant, I don’t have to on the Sun and thus I am not the protagonist to the anxiety of the High-Expectation-Mind for I can rise with the situations that arise rather that feel frustrated or Out Of Control in an anti-expectation way.

When I live from my Spirit, I am less troubles with the control over life, as I easily translate the fact that I don’t have to control everything as I don’t have to create the delusion of superpower. When I am living from my spirit I am living from love and I realize there is no greater superpower than love and can’t be brought by undertaking the control to every aspect of my experience.

I have shifted from High-Expectation-Mind to High-Spirit-Mind. I have changed to let Go the resultants and live in the Moment. I am the new Sanghita Roy. I think, I do, I speak, I power..

I have Moved on. My Life is now Out of My Control!


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